Treadstone Associates
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How do you track real estate referrals?

Keep a register with four things in it: who referred whom and when, what the referring party gets, what was disclosed to the client and when, and the date the consent clock on that contact expires. Automation is good at capture, at generating the disclosure at the right moment, and at counting down. It is not good at deciding whether an arrangement creates a conflict, and in Ontario the disclosure has prescribed content and a prescribed sequence.

Treadstone Associates · Updated 2026

Key takeaways

  • • A referral fee is a financial benefit. It must be disclosed as soon as the agent knows or ought to know it might be received — not when it arrives.
  • • The disclosure has prescribed contents, including an estimate of value, the conditions attached, and whether it is direct or indirect.
  • • An agent may not be paid directly by anyone other than the brokerage that employs them.
  • • CASL exempts the first message to a referred person from the consent requirement only if it names the referrer in full and says it is sent because of the referral.
  • • Implied consent expires: two years from a purchase or contract, six months from an inquiry. That is the clock the register exists to watch.

Referrals get lost twice. The first time is at the moment of introduction, when nobody writes it down. The second is months later, when the person is finally ready to transact and the relationship that justified contacting them has quietly expired. A register fixes both, and it happens to be the same register a regulator would want to see.

In Ontario, a referral fee is a financial benefit

RECO’s bulletin on financial benefits is the governing text, and it is more demanding than most referral arrangements assume. It requires that an agent disclose to their client all direct and indirect financial benefits that the agent, or a person related to the agent, might receive in connection with the services provided, and it fixes the timing: the requirement applies as soon as the agent knows, or ought to know, that a financial benefit might be received — the disclosure is tied to the possibility of receiving it, not to receipt. The form does not matter: the benefit might be a payment in cash or otherwise, a gift, tickets to an event, or an offer of a future service.

The contents are prescribed. The disclosure must state what the benefit is, including an estimate of its value or the dollar amount, a description of any conditions under which it might be received, and whether it is direct or indirect; who might receive it — the agent, or a person related to the agent, with a description of the relationship; and the relationship between the person providing the benefit and the agent or related person. Then there are two more steps: the agent must make best efforts to obtain a written acknowledgement that the disclosure was received, and provide a copy of the acknowledgement if one is made.

The bulletin also lists the third parties this most often involves — home inspector, appraiser, lawyer, mortgage broker or lender, moving company, photographer or videographer, decorator or home stager, and renovation, repair or maintenance service providers — which is a usefully concrete list of the vendor relationships a brokerage should be tracking. And it defines “related person” broadly, capturing a spouse, a child, a parent, a relative by blood, marriage or adoption of the agent or the agent’s spouse or child, or a person associated with the agent within the meaning of subsection 1(2) of TRESA.

Five fields per referral, captured at the introduction

Direction and parties. Who referred whom, and whether your side is paying or receiving.

The benefit. Amount or estimate, conditions attached, direct or indirect. This is the disclosure content, so capture it in the shape the disclosure needs.

Relationship. Between the agent and the recipient, and between the provider and the agent. Related-person status is a field, not a footnote.

Disclosure and acknowledgement. When it was made, to whom, and whether an acknowledgement came back and was copied to the client.

The consent clock. The date implied consent to contact that person expires.

Money moves through the brokerage

Whatever the arrangement, the payment route is fixed. RECO states that an agent is prohibited from receiving payment directly from any source other than the brokerage where they are employed, and that brokerages may have their own policies and rules regarding the receipt of a financial benefit that agents are expected to follow. So a referral fee is a brokerage receivable, and it belongs in the same ledger as everything else — see tracking commissions. The bulletin also notes that a possible financial benefit may give rise to a conflict of interest, leading to further disclosure obligations, and that any arrangement which might lead an agent to put their own or a related person’s interests before the client’s should be avoided. That is a judgment, and it is not one to delegate to a workflow.

Where the referral relationship is contractual rather than casual, the terms deserve a look. Our sister law firm’s article on non-circumvention clauses in Ontario referral deals covers the clause most often used to protect a referrer, and what it does and does not achieve.

The first message to a referred person

CASL has a specific rule for this, and it is one of the few exemptions that is genuinely easy to comply with — if you know it exists. The Electronic Commerce Protection Regulations disapply the consent requirement for the first commercial electronic message sent to contact an individual following a referral, where the referrer has an existing business relationship, existing non-business relationship, family relationship or personal relationship with both the sender and the person being contacted, and where the message discloses the full name of the individual who made the referral and states that it is sent as a result of the referral. Miss either of those two disclosures and the exemption is not available.

Note what the exemption does not do. It removes the need for consent for that first message only; the content requirements still apply, so the message must identify the sender, enable the recipient to readily contact them, and provide an unsubscribe mechanism, with contact details valid for at least 60 days. After that first message you are back to ordinary consent analysis. This is a good candidate for a locked template: two mandatory merge fields, the referrer’s full name and the referral statement, and no way to send without them.

The clock that quietly runs out

Most referred contacts are not ready immediately, which is exactly why implied consent matters. CASL defines an existing business relationship by fixed windows: a purchase, lease or contract within the two-year period immediately before the message is sent, or an inquiry or application within the six-month period immediately before it. Consent may also be implied where the recipient has conspicuously published their electronic address without refusing unsolicited commercial messages and the message is relevant to their business role, which is a business-context route, not a consumer one.

So the six-month inquiry window is the one that catches brokerages out. Someone asks a question in March, is not ready, and by October there is no implied consent left. A register that computes the expiry and prompts before it arrives is the whole point — not to squeeze in a last message, but to ask for express consent while there is still a basis to ask.

Phone referrals: the DNCL still applies

A referral is not an exemption from the National Do Not Call List. The CRTC’s guidance for the real estate industry is explicit that registration and subscription to the National DNCL is done at the brokerage level, that the brokerage must maintain an internal brokerage-wide do not call list, and that the brokerage is liable for the actions of its agents and any lead generators they use. It also gives a warning that applies directly to referred leads: a person sharing their phone number on a website to sell their house does not constitute valid consent to receive calls from a real estate agent offering their services. Subscribed numbers must be downloaded every 31 days and lists scrubbed before calling. The exemptions that do exist — including for a person with an existing business relationship who has not made a do-not-call request — are set out in the Unsolicited Telecommunications Rules, which also confirm that the National DNCL Rules do not apply to a telemarketing telecommunication made to a business consumer. The outreach mechanics are covered further in recruiting agents.

A worked example

The following is illustrative — a composite of how the register is usually assembled, not a measured result.

A past client introduces a colleague by email. The introduction is captured into the register from the thread: referrer, referred person, date, relationship, and no benefit payable in either direction. Because a benefit field is empty, no disclosure is generated — but the field exists, so the absence is a recorded fact rather than an assumption.

The first outbound message uses the referral template. It names the referrer in full, states that it is sent because of the referral, identifies the brokerage, and carries an unsubscribe link and a monitored address. The register stores the sent copy.

The colleague is a year from moving. The register computes the six-month inquiry window and, six weeks before it closes, prompts the agent to ask for express consent to keep in touch. That is a two-line email and a checkbox, and it converts an expiring implied basis into a durable one.

Separately, the brokerage’s preferred home inspector begins offering a fee for referrals. The moment the arrangement is proposed — not the moment a cheque arrives — a disclosure is generated for every affected client file with the amount, the conditions, the direct-or-indirect characterisation and the relationship description populated, and each one waits for an agent to send it and for an acknowledgement to come back.

Common questions

Do we have to disclose a referral fee if the client is not paying it?

Yes. The obligation attaches to a benefit the agent or a related person might receive from another person in connection with services provided to the client, regardless of who pays. It also includes the situation where the brokerage is to receive remuneration under an agreement with a third party who is not the client, in respect of the same trade.

When exactly does the disclosure have to go out?

As soon as possible after you know or ought to know the benefit might be received. RECO is explicit that the disclosure is not tied to receipt of the benefit, but to the possibility it might be received. Building the trigger off the arrangement rather than the payment is the difference between compliant and late.

Can the system send the disclosure automatically?

It can generate and queue it. Sending should stay with a person, partly because the bulletin requires best efforts to obtain a written acknowledgement — which is a follow-up behaviour, not a send event — and partly because the conflict-of-interest question sitting behind the disclosure needs a human view. The client-facing sequencing fits naturally into the closing update cadence, provided the disclosure is not buried inside a marketing message.

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